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Also off my trusty friendslist, here is a dossier on white supremacy in the US -- from a source on the inside who infiltrated key organizations for years.

White Supremacy background and history, plus of course present danger: The International Alternative Right


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C/p'd from [personal profile] giandujakiss:

The GOP broke off bipartisan talks with Dems to shore up ACA's insurance markets, and now they're trying - again - to unilaterally repeal ACA and take with it a huge chunk of Medicaid (which will, of course, completely destabilize our entire healthcare system, but that's where we are).

You can find more information by googling Graham-Cassidy, but here's one link [on this new attempt to dismantle the ACA].

Apparently, Lindsey Graham - one of the bill's sponsors - got on Breitbart radio (yes, now we're integrating Breitbart into GOP mainstream, fun times ahead) to urge listeners to call in support of the new bill, so it's VERY IMPORTANT that the Senate be flooded with opposition calls.

Here is one script and information resource.

L'shanah tovah!

Sep. 20th, 2017 08:01 am
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A little early, but I won't be around later, so: a happy start of the High Holy Days to you, if you celebrate!

My secular Jewish household will mostly eat apples and sweet honey when it comes to action. But both my wife and I will think of the Jewish community, in our different ways as an American Jew and a German Gentile.

Surfacing, the real-life edition

Sep. 17th, 2017 10:29 am
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Let's start with five good things about my life right now:

1. Ask, and ye shall receive. Under pressure at work to put together a presentation in October, I texted one of my non-profit co-founders on a whim, not expecting her to have time or interest in co-chairing a webinar. But she immediately said yes; we're having a planning session tonight. Now I'm both relieved and a little bit excited about the subject of much procrastination.

2. Our wedding celebration preparation is almost done. WHICH IS GOOD, BECAUSE IT IS NEXT WEEKEND. Can't claim I was the driving force here; my wife was much better. But still, I too knocked several preparation points off our list. There's a price to pay if neither you nor your life partner are Planners or Organizers, but we had the privilege to pay in hard coin (i.e. having vendors do more for us) rather than familial currency (i.e. putting it on a date fitting for her auntie, who would have loved to go full Weddingpalooza).

3. The cats are very affectionate these days. Still semi-feral, of course, and not into being petted :( or even touched, although Poppet tolerates it from my wife. But they are social with us, head-butting and nose-sniffing and watching us Do Important Human Things In The Kitchen through the glass without feigning the usual disinterest...okay, fine, sometimes they feign disinterest; they're cats. :)

4. If one door closes, a window opens. (It's small, but it's a window.) I was devastated when the only dedicated gluten-free sweet pastry shop in San Francisco with actually good baked goods (glutless) closed, but they have just re-opened as a delivery-only service for Fridays and weekends. Weekends aren't excellent for someone living in the East Bay, but Fridays, Fridays I shall feast on cake! Except this upcoming one, given no. 2.

5. No periods forevermore, and everything works. Once the non-surgery issues were resolved, for the most part, life without a uterus has been excellent...except on the one day of my cycle when everything is terrible and the world is dull and gray, of course. But even that pleases me conceptually, because that plus the other two signs of an upcoming period mean my left (heh) ovary has taken over the full hormone production, and I don't have to consider HRT.

Unfortunately, like humans are wont to, I make bad decisions in the spur of the moment, so right now I am struggling with an old-new issue. Oral surgery talk, pretty gruesome, so please mind the cut-tag )

Yum.

Sep. 17th, 2017 09:48 am
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It's one of my favorite flavors of the year, and it's one I only taste at this season: coffee-infused honeycake batter, licked off of the scraping spoon after I put the pans in the oven.

Gratitudes

Sep. 16th, 2017 11:52 am
kass: a latte in a teacup with a heart shape drawn in the foam (latte)
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1. Tasty leftovers for lunch: baked rice (lemon, cinnamon, curry leaves), topped with spicy kale (ginger, soy, and a hot red pepper from the CSA) with a dollop of chicken schmaltz just to make the whole thing richer and more flavorful.

2. Rereading the introduction to The Bitch is Back this morning and being both comforted and inspired by the existence of many smart, thoughtful, passionate women determined to wrest the most out of midlife.

3. The fact that my son, who is going on eight, still wanted nail polish this weekend and still watches Shimmer & Shine.

4. Beautiful warm late-summer day, which means I'm still wearing sleeveless shirts and sandals, both of which make me happy.

5. I'm going to give myself a pedicure this afternoon. \o/!

How are y'all?

On Anxiety, but funny

Sep. 13th, 2017 08:25 am
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That "Distracted Boyfriend Meme"? It's really not that funny in the original, but I keep cracking up about all the clever fandom renditions...and threw my hat in the ring to make one myself (with that handy meme generator out there on the internets):

I made dis (on tumblr)


Yuletide

Sep. 13th, 2017 08:15 am
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ON THE PLUS SIDE, Y'ALL, Yuletide nominations are open!

These are mine, below the cut: My Yuletide Noms )

What, ouch, and also -- already?

Sep. 13th, 2017 07:43 am
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:: It's raining. I would have never grasped the weight of this statement in 2012 when I came here, but the song is true, mildly modified: It never rains in Northern California in summer. It's the softest and gentlest reminder of climate change, and the polar opposite of what the folks in the Caribbean, Cuba, and states like Florid and Texas experience. But...it's a reminder.

:: Also a reminder of my short memory when it comes to non-chronic pain: God, my lower jaw hurts. Yesterday I tried to have the implant for my lower jaw put in, finally. But even with "perfect-looking" bone (after chewing in the front to remind my jaw of its job; after popping calcium pills like it was my job) there was simply too little of it post-accident. Cutting for tooth surgery details )

:: My boss is back in the office today. I am quivering in what might feasibly be boots (given said weather situation).

Gratitudes

Sep. 12th, 2017 04:03 pm
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1. Kitten. With his little kitten face, and his giant kitten paws, and his blissed-out kitten squinty-eyes while lounging on my desk in a sunbeam and licking my fingers.

2. Thanks to [personal profile] heresluck posting her recipe for Keralan pepper chicken last week I was inspired to get curry leaves (one can buy them on Amazon! which is useful to know if one lives in a small town as I do), and then I was inspired to ask her what else she cooks with them, and now I am making lemon, cinnamon, and curry leaf basmati rice.

3. It is warm this afternoon. Warm and beautiful and sunny and the crickets and cicadas are singing their song.

4. I have a big work deadline coming up and I am reaching a state of calm about it. As in: the really important things will get done. The things that don't get done...? Must not be that important. ::grin:: We'll see if I can sustain this attitude through the next couple of weeks (not likely, but one lives in hope.)

5. Tonight [personal profile] kouredios will come over and we will have dinner and watch some Gilmore Girls again. It's nice to be getting back to that routine.

How are y'all?
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:: Went on a bucket-listed trip to Angel Island in the Bay of San Francisco with a bunch of excellent fangirls, from [personal profile] cofax7 over [personal profile] laurashapiro over [personal profile] shrift to ladies who are not on my friendslist but really need to be.

:: Am contemplating what to do regarding the Equifax breach that stole my data -- might even write about it; it's not my core area of expertise but adjacent enough that a contribution could help others. Partially, I'm fed up because of yet more US-American privacy and security practices that run roughshod over individuals, and partially because two of the consumer reporting agencies, namely Equifax (surprise) and Experian don't let me do online credit freezes. Only TransUnion gave me the easy option of five minutes and ten bucks. I'll also look into the forced arbitration clause and the signing away of any class action rights, so let me know if you want to know the results.

:: Politics remain dire, but talking about them yesterday helped. By law I am not allowed to participate in politics directly or contribute financially (foreigner and all) but that makes me ever more determined to help. In these times of DACA danger, it's ever more the immigration side. Please, US friends, remember all of us who have no voice but everything to lose.

:: Planning for the big day goes apace. By "apace" I mean "haltingly and in quite an incompetent manner", but at least I am working on being an adult doing adult things. See also the subject line (yes, I would eventually get to it): I will never ever be a good planner or organizer of personal affairs, but it's time to stop beating myself up over it. I was talking on the phone to my best friend from US High School yesterday -- and the fact I braved the telephone should tell you how much I love her -- and had to stop her from putting herself (an accomplished professional owning a place in the City of Boston) down. Your late 30s and early 40s are a great time to realize that you're never going to be The Perfect Adult, but that this is alright; you'll make do.

:: My physical health, minus the chronic conditions, is excellent, almost two months post-surgery. Except for when I look down at the three tiny scars, I'm suffering no ill effects. I can run 10k with ease, I can swim for an hour, I can hike the hills of bay islands happily. Everything is in working order; I can scratch two regular medications off my list completely and, what's best, no. More. Pain. :)

Gratitudes

Sep. 9th, 2017 07:55 pm
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1. The tapestry of sound at twilight: crickets, cicadas, the occasional distant whistle of a train.

2. Mister Adorable Kittenface. Even if he's being a little bit bitey today and attempting to gnaw on me with his teeny tiny little teeth.

3. A glass of rosé, because rosé.

4. I finished Gail Carriger's Parasol Protectorate books and they are quite charming.

5. Today I wrote a work thing that really, really needed to be written. It's only a draft, so with any luck I'll manage to improve it, but worst-case instance, now it exists. Go me.

How are y'all this evening?

Morning gratitudes

Sep. 7th, 2017 10:15 am
kass: a latte in a teacup with a heart shape drawn in the foam (latte)
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1. A latte. Because today is grey and there needed to be espresso.

2. A haircut! I have ears again! The best thing about having short hair is the delightful feeling of getting shorn again.

3. Earlier this week, [personal profile] kouredios and I watched an ep of Gilmore Girls for the first time in months upon months. I had forgotten how much I like these characters.

4. Tonight [personal profile] squirrelhaven and [personal profile] outsidetheparty and their kid are coming over for dinner, so I'm making green chicken enchiladas.

5. Kitten. Because kitten.

How are y'all this morning?